No crying in front of girls.
Here are some things that a guy shouldn't do:
1) Cry in front of a girl. Crying is a form of relieving your emotions, but it's also a form of helplessness. If a guy were to cry in front of a girl, it'd mean that he's helpless about something. If he's helpless, what should the girl with the thing he's helpless about? Unless he plans to anal himself, I don't see how the girl can come into the picture.
Which is why it's unacceptable to cry in front of a girl. You can share your bad sexperiences with a guy(and cry it out, which would be quite gay), but you cannot cry to a girl. Crying can be seen as a desperate way to ask for help, and guys shouldn't be asking that from girls.
2) Howl and cry at the foot of an overhead bridge in front of a girl. You're embarrassing the girl, and yourself, and whichever school you're from. There's never a need to cry in public areas. Come to think of it, what can bother a guy? Besides sexual frustration, I can't think of a better reason to cry.
It's OK to ask for help from a girl. Like, 'Hello, I don't know how to do this question, can you help?'
But it's totally unacceptable for a guy to howl like that. A guy should never snap in front of women. Imagine: guy with girl walks along the streets, girl gets snatched by a mob, mob proceeds to dark alley to rape girl, guy howls and cries and stones in the middle of nowhere.
Or: guy with girl stuck in a fire, guy stands there and howls and cries.
When you have a guy and a girl, females have the prerogative to cry. This is what I believe in. Guys should be the emotional support of women, and not the other way round(because guys don't have much emotions in the first place, namely happy and horny).
A man needs to be able to make his female companions feel safe. Crying and venting your frustration on a woman doesn't help in that. I'm..disappointed in Mankind, to say the least, for the poor show of gentlemanliness in the above act.
This week passed pretty quickly. I wonder why, too. Ah screw it I feel like sleeping.
And I hope I do get into bowling, if not I'd have to join harmonica(provided they accept me). Chess club trains till 8, and that sucks. And I've lost my touch in chess. In the past, I didn't think that my chess pieces were in the way of my other chess pieces. Now, I can't coordinate shit. :c am sad.
-- 2/19/2009 11:11:00 PM
